please be nice to me, i’m in my twenties. do you know what that does to a person
Normalize not forcing people to choose you. If they think they can find better elsewhere – let them. Respectfully.
When I ask you how your day was, send the the essay. I’ll read.
The best way to protect yourself is to be as fluid and formless as water; never bet on stability or lasting order. Everything changes.
I do not view this so much as protecting myself as I do freeing myself.
hey *kisses u on ur forehead* i’m going to ruin you